On my own

Relationships issues arise and people once again are telling me how to live. yay.
no, actually, blah.
Like I said, my life is nowhere near being normal. I make all decisions and judgements concerning my relationships whenever I'm in one.
There was an article that was meant to be sweet when it came to regrets. All of the names were anonymous. Not one single man gave his name. It leads me to assume several different things. I only have one positive thought and that would be for his own protection. The other assumptions is that there must either be shame in owning up to feelings, or it is another B.S. article.
The latter assumptions, no, you don't have a chance at all. The positive assumption, if a man is tryiing to protect himself, he will never be the top dog in the relationship. I'm not embarassed of the risks and daringness that I take sometimes. If a guy isn't as or more risky and daring than I am, I will always think I have better odds at safety, protection, and decisions within myself. I will look up to myself more than I would look up to him. Some men don't let insecurity get the best of them and don't mind being seen as lesser in my eyes. Maybe this is why a lot of people connect me to being a Couger.
I've never really gotten deeply attached to many guys, so it is easier for me to let go.
In other articles concerning relationships, I encourage people to keep their mouth shut when it comes to advice. They don't know me, they don't know what I've lived through. Even if they did I AM STILL QUEEN OF MY OWN WORLD EVEN IF I AM NOT A SUCCESS IN RELATIONSHIPS. I know what is best for me better than any person I would know. It is as if people are so forgetful at my own grudges, hate, and disrespect that I have.
I live life and make choices as it comes, so relationship advice givers, GET YOUR HANDS OFF OF ME.